Father and Daughter Bonding
Young infants develop a
strong attachment towards the mom. At this age, they are completely dependent
upon her for their needs, such as being fed or being put to bed. It is only
when they start growing older those children starting accepting the dad as a
parent. Little boys, as they become aware of their common gender, begin to look
upon the dad as a role model. However, little girls too form equally deep bonds
with their fathers.
Here are some of the factors responsible for the close bond that daughters
share with their fathers:
- First man in their life: The father is usually the
first man in a little girl's life. Girls usually develop their idea of
'maleness' from their fathers, and this influences the way they will view
other men in their lives. Fathers, thus, lay the groundwork for the type
of relationship that their daughters will share with men later in their
life.
- Self-evaluation: Young girls usually depend
on their mothers to help them form their definition of 'womanhood'.
However, a loving father is important to help a young girl develop
self-esteem. His appreciation of her defines how she evaluates herself as
a woman.
- Security: Fathers provide daughters
with a sense of security. A warm and trusting relationship with her father
makes a girl feel 'wanted,' and reassures her that she will always be
protected from harm.
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