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Now that you've established an allowance for your little darling, you may consider developing a list of chores for your child.

Experts differ on whether an allowance should be given as a reward for chores or if an allowance is a separate thing because chores are just part of the responsibility of being in a family. Whichever way your philosophy falls, now is a good time to consider drawing up a list of chores for your child, if only to start teaching the idea of shared responsibility. You might find yourself re-doing some work and spending more time than you're supposed to be saving by "out-sourcing" your work to your child.

Many experts say that chores are good for kids for several reasons:

    * Chores teach independence.
    * Chores build self-esteem by teaching kids the value of helping.
    * Chores teach kids that sometimes you have do things you don't want to do.

Here are some things that might go on that chore list:

    * Making their beds
    * Helping empty the dishwasher
    * Folding towels
    * Helping wash the car
    * Helping wash patio furniture
    * Setting or clearing the table
    * Simple dusting
    * Retrieving the mail
    * Helping carry and put away groceries
    * Helping rake the yard
    * Watering plants
    * Sorting socks
    * Emptying wastebaskets
    * Feeding dog, cat, or fish
    * Sweeping the kitchen or porch
    * Practicing piano or other musical instrument

Make sure you monitor how great your child's workload is. Don't pile on too much extra work if he or she is already over-scheduled on activities.